Affordable Christmas Gifts for Parents from Santa Claus and Brooke Astor

The son of philanthropist Brooke Astor was accused in an indictment unsealed Tuesday of plundering his mother's $198 million estate and conspiring to have the Alzheimer's-stricken socialite sign a new will leaving her fortune to him.

I guess this shows us that the rich are just like everyone else. Greed is no more a condition of poverty than hunger is a condition of obesity. Humans with a nature to cause harm to their families for their own profit come in all shapes and sizes. Brooke Astor is no more immune to her family's greed than any other elderly woman suffering from the ravages of dementia. Probate, estate taxes and trust issues for the rich are the same as for everyone else - just magnified by the scale of wealth.

A big part of our estate planning process is developing strategies to prevent abuse of the elderly. Using co-fiduciaries, professional trust services and checks and balances built into our documents, we are able to give our clients strong lines of defense. Brooke Astor may have had access to the best lawyers in the United States because of her wealth, but without an understanding of elder law and the dangers of elder abuse, even the best lawyer in Boston cannot imagine the opportunity for fraud within a parent-child relationship. Our experience tells us that the "big firm" lawyers are ill equipped to deal with what is often more social work than legal work.

Our practice is to approach mental health issues in our elderly clients as a multi-disciplinary issue. Working closely with medical providers, financial planners and social workers we craft bespoke plans that respect each individual client's unique personal situation. House, hospital or nursing home calls are commonplace in what we do, how else could we know how our clients live? Ask your downtown Boston lawyer to visit the nursing home on a Saturday morning.

In her day Brooke Astor, was a great philanthropist. In a great twist she will continue to be philanthropic through her own son's misdeeds by giving America an example of greed to the umpteenth degree. For elder law lawyers, Santa Claus could not have brought a more perfect Christmas present for elder parents than the example of the consequences of poor planning. Do your grandparents, parents and self a favor and give the affordable Christmas gift of good estate planning. And, yes, I would be happy to sell you a gift certificate for estate planning!

 

Estate Planning - Is Your Trustee Trustworthy?

How did wealthy Aunt Sally's bequest of $500,000 a year to help stray cats end up going to The Foundation for the Preservation of Home Brewers after she was gone? She had both a will and a trust explicitly spelling out her wishes that were supposed to be followed in perpetuity.

Stewardship is a lost art. As an estate planning attorney I am charged with preserving my clients' intents through various documents, such as wills, trusts and charitable foundations. I guide clients on selecting experienced, competent and reliable fiduciaries. I follow through to know that my clients' estate planning trusts are funded before death to avoid unnecessary probate administration.

A recent New York Times piece reminds me how important it is for me, an estate planning attorney, to see that my clients' wishes are preserved, not perverted by the corporate greed that pervades the corporate estate and trust administration industry.

The Times article shows how many irrevocable trusts, charitable trusts and private foundations are administered by stingy corporate trust giants more interested in collecting fees than serving the wishes of those no longer here. Why give the money to charities? It will only reduce trust fees.

But that is not even the worst part. According to the Times, the wishes of clients are often changed to reflect the wishes of the administrators. The charities specified in the trusts are replaced by charities chosen by administrators as more appropriate. Generous gifts become less so, or even disappear. Why?

Why indeed. The trust industry in the United States got its big start in Boston over 200 years ago with the First National Bank of Boston in 1784. The bank was chartered to serve the banking needs of ship captains, mainly whalers and Far East Traders.

Often the ships would be gone for over a year at a time while the captains' families stayed behind in Massachusetts. As a result, Boston trust lawyers and trust companies were charged with preserving and protecting the wealth of the merchant fleet. Massachusetts developed a great body of trust law, that to this day is unrivaled in any other state.

Silent among those laws is a clear definition as to what a reasonable action would be by a trustee. Certainly the trustees must act reasonably. But because most estate planning attorneys draft trusts with the broadest of fiduciary powers, theses same discretionary powers are often the tool of self serving corporate trustees. The cure? For one, clear language is a good start. I am a strong advocate among the Massachusetts Bar for clear language in all estate planning documents.

Our law firm is partial to English, as opposed to legaldygook, for all our estate planning documents. If you cannot understand the plain meaning of a document after carefully reading it once, it is not clearly written. Secondly, we are proponents of using co-trustees or trust protectors on all trusts and foundations. In this way, there are checks against outrageous unrestrained abuse of power by trustees as outlined in the Times article.

Last, and most important, we provide for removal of the trustee in all of our trust planning, should that trustee fail to perform fiduciary duties. Provisions are made that such a trustee can be replaced by one willing and able to do the job consistent with the language of the trust and the wishes of the client.